I miss you please come home. 💔
I do not sugarcoat anything! I am here to protect your hearts from hurt the best way that I can. We do not live in a romcom or other romantic movies, where the notorious bachelor dates a “different kind of woman” and suddenly decides to get married. Listen, that woman is like any other woman: special in her own way. It wasn’t just her: HE decided he didn’t want to date in a shallow way anymore. He had to show signs of boredom with his lifestyle FIRST. You have to DECIDE to commit BEFORE you commit to a person. There’s nothing you can do to make a man value marriage if he doesn’t already see the value in it. Maybe in 5% of cases, but I work with probabilities and likelihood’s and for your mental and emotional wellbeing, you would do well to too. If you don’t feel ready to commit, or get married, then guess what? You won’t. If you don’t feel ready to date seriously, then you won’t! The pressure needs to come off of you Sister! You cannot change somebody’s mind about their own future. You cannot cure them of their trauma or past hurts. Even when a man says that “my fiancé helped me through dealing with that trauma and thanks to her, I made it through. Of course I had to propose- I love her!” No. SHE did not get him through that; he did the work HIMSELF. No person can help someone through depression and trauma. It takes hard work from the person themselves. If you believe in God, it takes GOD. It takes the inner power in you to say “I’m going to get better TODAY.” That fiancé or girlfriend probably had to go through hell and back but HE DECIDED that he wants a partner. Continued in comments ♥️.#realtalk #heartprotection #relationships #relationshipquotes #blogger #blackblogger #writerscommunity #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #mentalhealthawareness #emotionalabuse #joy #love #lovelessons #writer #bookcomingsoon #book #author #quotestoliveby #quotesaboutlife #thinker
#314 TheUnreadLetters 💌
Let’s teach our children the importance of self love. The potency of their sexual energy. How to listen to their intuition whilst balancing and grounding their logical thoughts. That being vulnerable is a strength and crying does not make you weak. Expressing their truth is important and required. Failure equals lessons and does not define who they are or their capability.
Let’s teach our children how to act and speak from a place of love. That their sexuality is perfect and not to be shamed or repressed. Their bodies are built for pleasure and procreation. That sex is sacred. Sex is spiritual. Let’s teach our children how to share real connections and experience deep love.
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A love that feels like the best friend you’ve had will always be goal - Parth